Dear Kia,
how would i go about asking my partner to have a foursome, the problem is i really want to with his best friend that im really attracted to another problem is his beast friend doesn have a girlfriend to make a foursome, so basically i just want to get it on with him, should i just do it behind his back, have u got any ideas xxx
Siobahn, 20
Dear Siobahn,
What a tricky question! I can only help by telling you what will happen and you’ll have to chose your own course of action I’m afraid!
If you ask your partner for a foursome he will no doubt catch on to your motivation for asking to rough and tumble with this particular friend. If you want to risk asking anyway and get his friend to find a willing female companion that you’re keen on, even if all goes according to plan and you end up doing the taco/burrito party pants dance, are you ready to be there while your boyfriend gives some other woman a hot beef injection? And is he ready to see you smashing his best mates sausage in your postal chute?
If you end up doing it behind his back, your sneaky secret conquest of the best friend will certainly be told to someone in your group of friends at some stage and snake its way back to your boyfriend. The question is, are you okay with facing the consequences? How important is this best friend to your boyfriend? Can you handle seeing your boyfriend lose faith in his best friend and his girlfriend in one foul swoop? Would your group of friends choose your side if you cheated on your boyfriend or would you be left friendless, homeless and feeling terrible?
I think so many things could go really badly in this situation so it’s best not to go there. But if you have to, be ready for good fireworks then possible bad fireworks that explode in your house and burn down your kitchen and singe your hair…
xo Kia
