Hey-o Mizz Kia,
This isn’t so much a question per-se (well there may be a question mark involved here somewhere), just wanting to know what your spin on cheating is? Like from a chicks point of view i guess. Where are the lines drawn? I don’t know, open discussion?
Francis “Muscular” Wilder-Cieling, 24
P.S this is my real name and i have it tattooed accross my back like 50 cent.
Dear Francis,
Well, I believe many things about cheating:
If possible, avoid it completely.
If you don’t seem to be able to help yourself, see if you can get your partner involved in a 3-way
If partner is not keen, then try to avoid cheating on them and a) carrying on in a relationship past a 1 night stand and b) putting yourself anywhere near a situation that you may get caught.
I think the way to deal with lustful thoughts that may lead to cheating is to discuss it with your partner in a tactful manner and a reasonable partner should realize that you have come to them for help and support to make the right decision and that despite picturing the yoga instructor in a bubble bath eating a banana, you actually don’t want to be unfaithful. That way, your partner now knows about your lusty thoughts which makes them less of a forbidden fruit and should eventually have less of a hold on you until you can control yourself.
Where is the line drawn? I think it’s drawn right where you wouldn’t tell your partner what you got up to. If it passes that line then you’re in trouble.
Has anyone got any cheating stories for us?
xo Kia
